Wednesday, January 30, 2008

proper manners

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Last weekend, the kids and I went to Blockbusters to return some movies and as usual, we rented a couple of new ones. Nicholas got a Thomas DVD and Sophia picked out the Disney Princess Enchanted Tales. Nicholas watched his movie once, maybe twice, and they have both watched the Princess movie at least once a day, if not more, if they can get away with it.

Last night (as she does every night while we are getting dinner ready), Sophia wanted to "watch my show," referring to her Princess movie. Usually, she demands. Last night, however, she tried a new approach: in a rather loud and articulate voice, she asked Greg, "MAY I PLEASE WATCH MY PRINCESS SHOW?!?" Thinking that I didn't hear it in the kitchen, he sent Sophia to the kitchen to ask me the same way. "MAY I PLEASE WATCH MY PRINCESS SHOW?"

We were so blown over by not only the fact that she asked so properly, but she was so stinkin' cute asking. Sophia got to watch her show, obviously.

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

a good big brother and sister

Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Greg took Nicholas to a doctor's appointment today and afterwards, they decided to kill the afternoon by getting a haircut and stopping at Trader Joe's for some treats (and balloons). Then they picked me up after work and I noticed that Nicholas had gotten two ballooons--one for him and another for Sophia. I praised him for thinking about her, and he mentioned that he had also picked up an extra (purple) lollipop for Sophia at Snippets where he got his haircut.

During dinner tonight, he got a very pensive look on his face and said, "you know, we're going to have to teach Sophia how to be good like I am good these days." He continued, "when the baby is here, Sophia will have to not get mad if the baby snatches a toy from her, and she's going to have to take his milk to him and definitely not drink it."

Almost indignant that anyone should question her ability to be a good big sister, Sophia replies, "I help mommy with baby."

equity

Greg's parents are big proponents of equity. I'm not sure how it all works out in the big scheme of things and whether true equity is really possible. But that aside, I suppose it's all about fairness in the end. So to that end, I suppose I should also post some recent pictures of Nicholas as well. He loves it when I tell him he's my favorite Nicholas. He replies and tells me that I am his favorite mom. I guess I should hold off on saying that he's my favorite boy...it could cause troubles if #3 ends up being a boy, eh?


This is Nicholas and his friend Ava during a field trip to the Lincoln Park Zoo. Those would be pink flamingos in the back.

"Hola, Handy Manny here. You break it, we fix it." Nicholas dressed up as Handy Manny from Disney Playhouse for Halloween. I was grateful for the no-stress costume we put together. Love that smile, too.



Apple-picking in Indiana. Nicholas liked climbing the trees in search of that huge apple. I think we brought home about 50 pounds of apples. Good stuff.

Monday, January 21, 2008

the juice is loose

Monday, January 21, 2008
Just making sure that no one accuses us of not taking as many pictures of our second child as we did of our first...a glimpse into the many flavors of our little monkey:

Sophia, the fashionista...although you can't see it, she had my high heels and purse to complete her look. And you can't overlook the Dora sunglasses.

Sophia with her Brookstone Nap socks on...perfect for lounging around on Christmas. Notice the Barbie necklace that came with one of the two Barbie dolls my parents got for her.


And well, this is just the juicy little girl just oozing with love that we get to see everyday.

a visit to dayton


This weekend, we went to visit Greg's grandmother Marion in Dayton, Ohio. She was recently widowed, just before Christmas, when her second husband Bob passed away. He had been in failing health and was ready to go. While Grandma and Bob had only been married a little over 2 years, they had been friends for many years and it was sweet that they had each other's companionship and were able to take care of each other. The last time we saw Bob was in July at the Muse family reunion at Murphin Ridge Bed & Breakfast in Ohio--smack in the middle of Amish country. It was nice to catch up with Greg's extended family on his mom's side, see his cousin Michelle's new baby Noah, and learn about the Muse family history (thanks to his uncle Ken).



Anyway, getting back to Dayton...we were supposed to fly out with Greg's mom on Friday night and return on Sunday afternoon. When Nicholas came home from school, he said he didn't eat any lunch because he wasn't feeling well. He was really excited to fly since it had been a while since we had flown anywhere, and I think he was more excited about swimming at the hotel (we had to find some way to make the weekend appealing for the kids). Anyway, he kept complaining all the way to the airport and after fighting the Edens' Friday night rush hour traffic, we decided to spend the night in Northbrook and fly out the next morning.

Saturday morning--we wake up at 5:30am and drive to O'Hare for the 8:15am flight, only to find when we get to the gate that the flight is delayed until 10am. Then 11am. Since we are flying United Express, we walk out to the tarmac and climb up the plane steps to board (the first highlight of many to come during this trip). Well, if you've ever been on these little planes, they are bumpy compared to the regular jets and if you sit in the back of the plane, a bit more so. About a half hour into the flight, we hit a huge air pocket and all the passengers go flying out of their seats. Thank goodness the kids were still buckled at this point--Sophia flew up out of her seat until her seat belt stopped her. The flight attendant, who had been serving drinks, hit her head and flew back, completely airborne before landing and hitting her side. When we got to Dayton, there were paramedics waiting to take her off the plane. At the end of the flight, Sophia wanted to know where her Sprite was.

We had a nice, albeit short, visit with Grandma. The kids were good and patient, considering their total lack of sleep during the weekend. It helps when you can periodically threaten them with no swimming when they start getting restless. Grandma has some health issues but is much more independent than what you might expect from someone who is almost 90 years old. And she had enough cushions in her apartment to keep the kids entertained for hours.

We had a hurried lunch with Grandma before rushing to the airport for our 1:23pm flight to Chicago. Greg's mom dropped us off and then we ran to check in, only to find our flight had been canceled. Apparently, this happens a lot in Dayton simply because there are not many people flying there. So we sat and waited at the most desolate airport I had ever been in for the 4pm flight, which got delayed until 5:15pm. And when it took off, I think there were about 20 people on the plane that had like 135 seats. Greg and I commented that the trip and the Dayton airport reminded us of Stephen King's The Langoliers. It's one of King's freaky stories you don't really want to think too much about regardless of how unrealistic it may be.

Anyway, when we got home last night, about 7 hours after we should have, we felt like the trip was longer than the 36 hours that we were roughly gone. But we feel better for having gone than not, simply because it was good to see Grandma and good for the kids to have more memories of their great-Grandma as well.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

a start

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

When I was a little girl, whenever my mom told me I couldn't do something, I'd tell her that I couldn't wait until I grew up so I could do/eat/wear whatever or go wherever she wasn't letting me at that moment.

When Greg and I began dating seriously, then got engaged, and eventually got married, we would have random conversations about what we'd do "when we grew up." And after three years of being friends, four years of dating, almost 10 years of marriage, and almost three kids later, we are still talking about what we want to do when we grow up. And sometimes when we step back and look at our current life, it's hard to believe that we are living our grown-up lives. And happy and grateful that we are doing it together. After all, at some point in our early days together, I use to think about what it would be like if we got married...when we grew up.

So here we go--jumping on the blog wagon and keeping track of our everyday happenings so that when we are all grown up, we can see how far we've come.
 
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